A personal message from the chair of YaleWomen

Dear Members of the YaleWomen Community,

We are at a moment in history that presents extraordinary challenges for women’s ability to control their health. The U.S. Supreme Court ruling in Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization to overturn Roe v. Wade and Planned Parenthood v. Casey has evoked strong emotions from those who support and those who oppose abortion. Many in our community, including the leadership of YaleWomen, are deeply concerned as it threatens the autonomy, rights, and health of all women and sets a precedent for other human rights to be dismantled. As Chair of YaleWomen and as a physician, I write now with my personal view.

As a physician, my duty and primary focus has been the care of my patients. In the United States, our maternal mortality rate is higher than any high-income country and is rising (23.8 deaths per 100,000 live births in 2020 compared to 20.1 in 2019) with rates nearly three times higher in Black mothers than in white mothers. The YaleWomen Council has recently completed our five-year strategic plan which includes a strong commitment to parity and health equity. Decisions about reproductive rights are now placed with the states, potentially exacerbating racial and socio-economic health disparities in access to reproductive healthcare for people of all genders. As YaleWomen, we have a shared experience of education and clearly value its importance. While the ruling will have wide implications, there is a gravity as it applies to higher education. Research has shown that since Roe v. Wade became law, access to abortion has increased the probability that young women experiencing unintended pregnancy finish college by nearly 20 percentage points and enter a professional occupation by nearly 40 percentage points.

I have a strong belief in the power of women and the value of including our perspective on important issues, a belief that has only deepened through my work with YaleWomen. On this issue, your perspective, as women, as YaleWomen leaders, is critical. I encourage you to use your voices to inform your elected representatives at both the state and federal levels concerning your views, whatever they are. I am so deeply grateful to be part of the YaleWomen community and appreciate how our members contribute to our mission. I welcome your thoughts as we continue our commitment to “advancing women’s voices and perspectives and to enriching and inspiring one another, Yale and the world.”

Susan Pepin MD, MPH
Chair of YaleWomen

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YaleWomen Global Newsletter | Summer 2021

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Meet Daniella Levine Cava ’77, Miami Dade County's First Woman Mayor

In 2020, Daniella Levine Cava, ’77 led a successful campaign in the non-partisan Miami-Dade County mayoral race to become the county’s first woman mayor. In November, as the pandemic raged, she assumed leadership of 2,400-square miles comprising a complex mélange of cultures, geographies, political views, and economies—an area replete with both boundless opportunities and pervasive inequality; of incredible wealth and dire poverty. We caught up with Levine Cava six months into her 4-year term to learn more about her personal path to office, where she’s focusing her administration’s efforts, and how things are going for her so far.

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YaleWomen Houston Wins YAA Award of Excellence and is Featured in YAA's April Responding to the Movement Event

In January, YaleWomen Houston was honored to receive a YAA Excellence Award for its two-part virtual series, "Find Your Voice as an Ally," featuring Denise Hamilton, Founder and CEO of Watch Her Work. The chapter was further honored when it was asked to participate in YAA's "Responding to the Movement: Conversations with Alumni Leaders on DEI in Action." This informative and interactive event took place in April and featured videos by four award winners followed by breakout sessions to discuss each group's novel initiative. You can watch the first video of the original "Find Your Voice as an Ally" series here and the second video here. And you can watch the April video here.

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The Inaugural Elga R. Wasserman Courage, Clarity, and Leadership Award Honors Dr. Stephanie Spangler

(Pictured: Dr. Stephanie Spangler) 

Two extraordinary Yale women faculty administrators, whose contributions and impact as leaders are separated by over half a century, were saluted in a virtual ceremony April 7, 2021, when the Women’s Faculty Forum (WFF) presented the inaugural Elga Ruth Wasserman Courage, Clarity, and Leadership award to Dr. Stephanie Spangler. As Naomi Rogers, PhD, Professor of the History of Medicine articulated, “WFF’s mission is to help the university reach its fullest aspirations, with ongoing leadership of women faculty taking Yale’s gender equity temperature regularly, as researchers, advocates, and community builders. …We hope this new award will signal to the entire university that the work and key contributions of women at Yale—too often unsung—must be recognized and valued.”

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YaleWomen Thanks Outgoing Council Members, Welcomes Incoming Council Members and Officers

The time, talent, and commitment of many alums make the increasingly important work of YaleWomen possible. As the 2020-2021 year draws to a close, we are especially grateful to Council members whose terms of service come to an end. They leave with our heartfelt thanks and best wishes.

Jessica Denmo Drubl, ’96
Stephanie Yu Lim, ’00
Veena McCoole, ’19
Brenda Ventura, SOM ’16

As YaleWomen’s visibility and reputation have grown, so, too, has interest in serving on the Council. This year, we had a deep pool of talent to draw on. We are thrilled to announce the results of this year’s election for Council members and officers, for terms that will begin July 1st (* indicates current Council members who have been re-elected for successor terms).

Marina Addams, ’14
Chieko Barry, LAW ’84*
Allison Bartels Spadone, ’90
Laurie Cameron, SOM ’16
Emily Friedrichs, ’07*
Hope Hanley, ’17
Rosette Nguyen, ’88
Dana Sands, ’83*
Belinda Wu, MPH ’15*

We thank outgoing officers Jennifer Ebisemiju Madar, ’88 (Chair), Sue Pepin, ’87 (Vice-Chair), and Dana Sands, ’83 (Treasurer) for their service.

Sue Pepin, ’87, Belinda Wu, MPH ’15, Lauren Graham, MEM ’13, and Jane Fincke Orenstein, ’78 have been elected to serve as Chair, Vice Chair, Secretary and Treasurer, respectively. Jennifer Ebisemiju Madar, ’88 will serve as Immediate Past Chair. 
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Five Rules for 'Recalculators': Advice on Switching Career Gears from Best-Selling Author Lindsey Pollak ’96

Lindsey Pollak ’96 is a New York Times bestselling author and expert on the subject of careers and the workplace. When the COVID-19 pandemic turned a calendar bursting with workshops, speaking engagements, and appearances into a calendar filled with … well, pretty much nothing, she turned all that suddenly-freed-up time into an opportunity to write her fourth book. Recalculating: Navigate Your Career Through the Changing World of Work was published by HarperCollins on March 23, 2021. Focused on the possibilities for career and lifestyle reassessment and re-invention opened up by pandemic disruption, the book offers advice, guidance, and salutary stories about people who have pushed the “reset button” on their lives. Recently, Lindsey (whose calendar once again has very little white space) managed to squeeze in a little time via Zoom to summarize her own career, the themes in her latest book, and the way she came to write it.

YW: How did “Recalculating” come about?

LP: What's always driven me to write books is that they’re books that I wished I’d had when I was going through things. For instance, my first book, Getting from College to Career, was what I needed when I was trying to figure out what to do after college. My second book, Becoming the Boss, was the one I needed when I started to manage people. And so on. So this book was born March 20, 2020, when lockdown started and my calendar went from completely booked to completely empty in a two-week period. I started picking up the phone and calling people and saying, ‘What are you doing? How are you handling this? What's going on?’ No one knew. And I guess it was my literary agent who said, 'Sounds like there's a book in there.' Because, suddenly, through no fault of our own, we had to recalculate.  So what does that look like and what does that mean? That’s how the book was born. And I wrote it in three months so that we could get it out as quickly as possible. I started it about a year ago in May of 2020, and it came out in March of 2021, which is pretty quick for publishing.

YW: Amazingly fast. But—while the pandemic certainly isn’t over—it seems that things are opening up again and we may even be coming back to a more normal life of travel, meetings, and even going back into the office. Is your book relevant in a post-COVID world?

LP: Absolutely. I think the trends that the pandemic accelerated had been building for a long time: fully remote work or hybrid work patterns; people having ‘portfolio’ careers where they do many different things; a greater emphasis on digital communication; and far more entrepreneurship and self-employment. COVID did not launch these trends. It accelerated them, and solidified them. There are different types of opportunities out there and new ways people have to go about capturing them.  For example, I’ve been told by many recruiters that companies are not going back to all in-person interviewing of job candidates. They are going to continue to use virtual interviews along with in-person ones. So if you’re job hunting, you now have to know how to handle both. You have to have a LinkedIn resume and the old formal resume. How to make your points on Zoom as well as in person. And that’s just the mechanics of job-hunting. There’s a lot more that has changed quickly and permanently.

YW: OK, point taken. I guess this is a book for the "new normal"—and for getting yourself back to a "new normal". So tell me, how can people do that?

LP: I have what I call five rules for recalculators. The first is to embrace creativity. Right now is not a time to be rigid. You might need to think about industries you’ve never thought about, or opportunities like entrepreneurship or consulting or freelancing that you hadn’t considered. I tell the story of a chef, who obviously couldn’t pursue his career during the early days of COVID. And—I hear this a LOT—he was saying that he’d really been thinking about a change anyhow, and COVID kind of prompted him to do that more seriously. So he went back to his college career center, which I always recommend, and they asked him, 'What do you like about being a chef?' And while he liked cooking, what he really liked the most was managing people and ordering the ingredients, getting everything set up. The career counselor said, 'You know, that sounds a lot like logistics, which is a big growing field.' And the chef realized that he had a lot of experience in a field that he just had never identified being good at. So now he’s transitioned to logistics and has made cooking his side gig. It was all because he was willing to think creatively about his skill sets. 

The second rule is to prioritize action. And I think where a lot of people have gotten stuck is that they get paralyzed by the situation that we're in, which is there are no jobs. 'I'm too old, I'm too young, I don't have the skills, I don't know how to code'… whatever it is they’re telling themselves, they just sort of drop out of the process. I do these online webinars, and the number one question I've been getting recently is ‘How do I motivate myself when I'm feeling really down?’ And my answer is you take the tiniest step you possibly can. It's really about action. You have to be of the mindset that you’re going to do something, whether it's updating one word on your LinkedIn profile today or calling one alum from Yale.

Rule number 3 is control what you can. Look, you can’t control a lot of things. People get obsessed with being too old to find a job or being less qualified for a job than other people, and the reality is, you can't control things like who else is applying for the position. You can't control whether the other people perceive you the way you’d like. But what you CAN control is your attitude and your willingness to move forward. You can control the number of jobs you apply for, and the number of people you speak to. And that’s good, because it really is a numbers game.

The fourth rule is to know your non negotiables. I think a lot of people make the mistake of saying, 'I'll do anything. You know, it doesn't matter.' And that's not really very helpful and often not true. And I think particularly as women, we have to know what our bottom line is. Is it that you need flexibility because you have elderly parents or you have children? Is it that you need a certain salary? Is it that you learned during the pandemic that you love working from home and want to continue—or you hated working from home and don't ever want to do it right? It's all valid, but you have to identify either one or two things that you absolutely will not end on, because I think we’ve often bent too much. It might not be your dream job, but if you can satisfy the non-negotiables, you can move forward.

And the fifth and final rule for recalculators: ask for help. You can't do this stuff alone. You've got to ask people for advice. You've got to go to webinars. You've got to read publications. I think the best way to feel comfortable is to know that you’re also willing to give help. That’s empowering. I did a lot of training for LinkedIn and the one of the founders of LinkedIn, Reid Hoffman, actually recommends going into LinkedIn and thinking, who can I help today? Because if you're known as a helper and a giver and a mutually beneficial networker, then when you have the ask, people are going to be a lot more willing and eager to help you because it feels authentic.

YW: These are great guidelines—I want to know more! But now, as time is getting short, I need to switch gears, and ask you if your Yale experience has had any bearing on your subsequent career focus—and if so, how.

LP: I had entered Yale wanting to be an English major. My dad is an English teacher, and I love to write, love to read. And it was a really prestigious major, too, which was really attractive to me. But it turns out I was really unhappy with the traditional nature of the English major. And then I took these American studies classes and I was like, 'This is great. I love this!' I like writing about stuff that feels current and relevant and culture and history and politics and all that kind of stuff. So, I finally switched to American Studies at the beginning of my junior year. That was a really huge move for me, to say 'I don't have to do the prestigious thing. I want to do the thing that I actually enjoy.' And, suddenly, my grades went up, my happiness went up. I enjoyed my classes. In retrospect, that was a really big moment for me. Another big moment: sometime after graduation, I had found a career coach who asked me to name the best job I ever had.  And I said, 'Being a freshman counselor at Yale my senior year.' And the thing I really loved was helping women with that specific college-to-early-career transition. That’s one of the reasons I wrote my first book, which kind of launched everything else I’m doing.

YW: A final question: you have a 10-year-old daughter. As you think about her making her way in the world, what are your hopes for her?

LP: My hope for her and her generation is that we really get away from this idea that you have to choose one thing. 'What do you want to be when you grow up?' is such pressure, right? Because right now, my daughter’s answer is, 'I want to be an actress and a lawyer and I want to run for president and I want to be a mom.' It’s like ten things. And I think we push people away from thinking like that. But the reality is, life is really long. So my hope for her is that she can be many things. That she can really explore all the things she's interested in and not feel that she has to be stifled.

Laura Teller, ’77


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YaleWomen Talks Money – Building Your Financial Well-Being, with Dr. Susan Pepin ’87, Claudia Rosenthal ’08, ’14MM, and Kelley Holland, ’86 MPPM

Beginning in early May, YaleWomen offered a three-part miniseries with Kelley Holland ’86 MPPM on personal finance, responding both to the immediate impact of the COVID-19 pandemic and to women’s longstanding financial challenges.

For further resources, visit www.ownyourdestinycoaching.com

Part 1: "Taking Our Financial Pulse"

Finances are a leading cause of stress among women, with the past year having only intensified the strain. Four out of five women in a recent survey said they were weighed down by financial concerns ranging from job loss to low pay and limited savings. You can achieve greater financial wellness, even after a year like 2020. Kelley Holland, a financial empowerment coach for women, identified the structural and social forces that lead many women to underestimate their financial skills - and the money-management strengths they actually possess. Participants said they came away with actionable plans to start utilizing money as a tool toward achieving life’s many goals. 

Part 2: "First Steps to Financial Fitness"

The second webinar in the series explored initial steps women can take to boost their financial fitness at any age. Even well-educated, successful adults may have very different levels of experience and expertise when it comes to money management. Holland spoke candidly about how to develop financial habits and systems that will serve you the rest of your life, from organizing your money to automating tasks and learning the basics of investing. She also shared financial wellness resources and a number of empowering statistics on women’s money hurdles and opportunities.

Part 3: "Sustaining Lifelong Financial Wellness"

Part 3 of the series was the final installment and addressed "Sustaining Lifelong Financial Wellness." Holland connected our increasing life expectancies with greater opportunity to make impactful changes in our financial lives even in midlife. Other topics covered included retirement security, forecasting financial needs, protecting our loved ones, and creating a charitable legacy. Participants said they found the series empowering, educational, and inspiring, and they felt better prepared to use their finances to engage meaningfully with the world.


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YaleWomen Global Newsletter | Spring 2021

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Finding Lux et Veritas in the Dark: YaleWomen Share What They’ve Explored and Accomplished During the Pandemic Year

The past year has been filled with disruption, isolation, anxiety, and, for all too many of us, personal illness and loss of loved ones and friends due to COVID. And yet, so many YaleWomen have striven to transform this dark period into something more than a lost year—using it as an opportunity to try new things, revisit old interests, learn, experiment, and explore.

When we asked you to share what new things you’ve done in the year of the pandemic via a Facebook post, we were happily surprised by both the number of responses we received and the breadth of your answers. Perhaps we shouldn’t have been. 

After all, to paraphrase (and update) Isaac Asimov, “The intelligent [wo]man is never bored.” Below, we report on how YaleWomen are not only staving off boredom—they’re also seizing new opportunities for growth and experiencing their mental, physical, spiritual, and social selves in new ways.


“Diana of Ephesus and her friends and saints march on"

Photocollage by Alexis Krasilovsky

© 2021 by Alexis Krasilovsky

Used with permission of the artist. All rights reserved.

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